Lol, it's been quite a while since i've ventured online and it's only this week that i've realised i haven't updated my blog in almost 4 months. Lots have been happening since then.

JULY/AUGUST

Well we all hibernated through the worse months of winter (at least I did). Then in August, miracle of miracles, i met this tenacious young puppy who decided he likes me, whether or not i "like it" (which i do) and he won't let go... so I've now officially been seeing someone for 3 months (a new record by the way).

I think I'm more surprised that he's prepared to put up with this old bull's "bull" than anything else.

SEPTEMBER

September was hectic with my workload shifting and the adjustment of someone new in my life. Point in fact, i thought i'd told him not to interrupt me when i'm stuck into a good book... well that cost me a few hours of making up after snapping at him well it's always fun to make up after a fight

Well we did manage to spend some time with other Q'ers at the pre-pride picnic (i'm the one in the pink caftan) Check out the pics - HERE!

OCTOBER

October started with a bang, Pride 2009 was lotsa fun although i confess I was simply to lazy to do the march this year. Instead I chilled at Zoo lake with my friends. Check out the pics - HERE!

Of course we simply had to end it with a bang as well and Mini Cooper's 50th birthday party in Clarens, in the Free State was incredible... with 849 mini aficionados ( which incl quite a few "family members") trekking from all over the country to honour this iconic car. The highlight of the weekend (for me at least) was getting to take a "Mini JCW Cabriolet" for a spin at approx 180km p/h... Now if only i could afford to buy one

We did take some time out to discover the picturesque town of Clarens and we spent many hours browsing through all the art galleries and shops, not to mention the restaurants scattered through the town.

well that's it for now - have a great weekend bois and gyrls

PS: if you still trying to find a guy in a pink caftan - i deleted that pic.

On a recent trip overseas, i popped into an under/swimwear store to pick up a few items.

I asked the salesman, a gorgeous little italian with muscles on muscles and a salami for a penis (more about that later) whether i could try the costumes on and he directed me to the dressing room.

I tried them on, asking his opinion and soon With his guidance, i was trying on styles i had not thought suitable but which turned out to be quite flattering
(the boys knows his swimwear).

Of course all the attention focused on the crotch area soon had junior waking up.

Imagine my surprise when the salesman complimented me on the "fit" and then topped it off by reaching out and giving junior a stroke through the costume.

Well what is a "boy" to do. The exhibitionist in me had lotsa fun getting a blowjob in full view (well my lower half and the very cute italian boy was hidden behind a clothing rail) of passing pedestrians.

Luckily none of them decided to venture into the store.

It was definitely not my last visit to that little store but you guys won't mind if i withhold the address, would you...

Hi boys and gyrls, I hope you guys had a fantastic weekend, now we just have to survive the Monday blues.

For once I had a really mellow weekend, on Friday night a friend dragged me along to a new cruise bar (well an old one in a new incarnation).The owner of the now defunct “Loading Zone” has opened a new venue called ‘Top Bar” in Ellispark. It’s a great venue with stunning views (it’s on the third floor), lots of space and secure off street parking.

On Saturday we checked out the renovated SIX Bar in Melville. The guys have really done a great job and the cocktails are fantastic as usual. It definitely helps the budget that they still do the buy one get one free specials till seven in the eve. Be warned though, even with the extra space you still need to get there early to get a seat and be prepared to share a table with strangers. That’s the part I actually enjoy most. You always end up making new friends.

The SA Leathermen had their Annual AGM and Beer Bust on Sunday. Congratulations to the new Executive Committee. Best wishes for the year ahead and may all your plans come to fruition. It was lots of fun to catch up with old friends and meet some new ones and the venue, “Le Chatou” was a stunning setting (it even has a dungeon). As it was in Melville we of course ended up back at SIX for more cocktails. Lol

Well that was my weekend. Hope you guys had as much fun and “cocktails” as I did.

Had a date yesterday afternoon, I’d met the guy online, and been promising for ages to go around and visit.

I arrived there at about twelve and he actually made snacks, rofl.

Must say, I had to give the guy brownie the points for effort. Anyone that's prepared to get up early on a Sunday morning to cook has got to be crazy for you or really wants to make a good impression.

OK, so we had brunch/wine/shag.

Which leads to the next question, why did I sleep with him? Don't misunderstand me, there was absolutely nothing wrong with this fellow, the only way I can describe is that there just wasn't any sexual chemistry. You know one of those shopping list scenarios ( You start working out in your head what needs to be done tomorrow)

Normally in that kind of situation I'd say thank you but this ain't gonna work. Did I feel pressurised to do the deed simply because he'd put in so much effort or is was it just the right thing to do?

Then there's the - I can't get enough of you – encounter.

You meet a guy, go to his place for some sexual relaxation and that should be the end of it, right...?

What do you do when they won't stop calling...? Am I really THAT good a shag?

Or am I just full of shit?

You tell me...

strayqueer@ananzi.co.za

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