I was 18 when I stumbled upon an episode of The L Word while flicking through DSTV channels over a decade ago. I watched wide-eyed as two women, who I would later come to know as Shane and Carmen, shared a passionate sexual encounter unlike anything I had seen before.
I have been visually traumatized by some of the things that men have been wearing to the gym lately. So much so that I've almost become scarred for life. I understand many people go to the gym for “hook-ups” or for the opportunity to meet that next someone special, but