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Body Language For Gay Men

Body Language For Gay Men

When out on a night on the town then its best to know that your mouth isn’t the only part of your body that talks.

In fact, all those sounds that come out of your face may not mean nearly as much as the signals you send with the rest of your body. Your posture, your facial expression, hand gestures, even that thing you do with your eyebrows when you’re nervous — all of these things communicate information to other people.

When most guys think about being charismatic, they think about what they need to say to impress, but body language is just as important, if not more so. Guys need to think about the messages their body language is sending, which is why we’ve compiled this list.

Come ready

Projecting positive body language starts long before you walk out the door. If you’re worried about the way your pants fit or the way your hair looks, you’ll come off as anxious and unfriendly. Wearing the right kind of clothes and taking care of your hair and skin will give you confidence, and you’ll project that confidence immediately upon walking into the room.

Use social contact

If you’ve ever watched Bill Clinton in action, you’ve seen effective use of social contact. With the skill of a seasoned politician, Clinton is constantly patting people on the back and enthusiastically shaking hands. He radiates positive energy; he’s both kinetic and magnetic. You can channel some of Clinton’s legendary charisma by using social contact too. You don’t want to be touchy-feely guy, but don’t hesitate to shake hands or pat someone’s back for a job well done.

Smile

A smile might say more about you than just about any other aspect of your body language. When onlookers see you smiling, they instantly know that you’re comfortable, relaxed and having fun.

Stand up straight

Standing up straight is another essential element of good body language. Slouchers look tired and beaten down. So keep your shoulders back and your chin up.

Keep your body open

Another important element of charismatic body language is keeping your body open. Essentially, that just means you don’t want to put objects in between you and other people. For instance, don’t stand facing the bar, stand facing away from the bar. Give people the opportunity to come up and meet you. Don’t cross your arms; try not to hold your drink out in front of your chest. There’s something subtly defensive about these postures.

Maintain eye contact

Avoiding eye contact makes you look shifty or painfully shy. Charismatic guys are confident and comfortable carrying on a conversation. So look others in the eye, especially your pick up; they often list “eyes” as one of the most attractive male characteristics.

A body of success

Much like a picture, body language speaks a thousand words. What is yours saying today?