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Things That Show You Are Gay

By Graham Green

Lets face it, when it comes to universal male-dom, we gay boys are all unique individuals. And yet, there are a few things we all have in common which makes our fag hags go - GYYRRLLFRIEND!!!! - with envy.

If you disagree check out the list of things below we gay men in general JUST LOVE TO DO and see which ones apply to you.
I rest my case. :)

Gym Selfies


We’re here, we’re queer, we work out! We get it!

Any Excuse to Take Off Our Shirts


It might be the one thing bros and gay guys have in common.

Top 40 music


Every gay man has his favorite pop earworms. But most gay men listen to them exclusively — and have been known to accost DJs demanding - SOMETHING WE KNOW!

Boyfriend Twins


One might be cute, but two is too cute. #twincest

Making A Big Deal Out Of Being Into Sports


Don’t get me wrong - Jocks are hot. And there’s nothing wrong with being a sports fan either — you just don’t have to remind us all the time.

Designer Underwear


Sexy or silly? Either way, it’s only going to end up on the floor anyway - if you’re lucky

Dressing Up


The best parties out there are theme dress up parties, right? But we all can't be super heroes

Over-Plucked Eyebrows


If you give a gay man some tweezers - he might just get carried away! Repeat after me: Vulcan brows ARE NOT SEXY!

Arguing Over Which Friend Is The Samantha Of The Group

Sex-in-the-City went off the air 30 years ago and we’re still playing this game? - Well, in Cape Town anyway

Little Dogs


Gay men love little dogs like little dogs love sniffing crotches. And yes, if you must know, I'm a cat person

Getting Hung Up On Straight Boys


If we know better, why can’t we do better?

Gay Tunnel Vision


A love of Queer culture and a healthy dose of Gay Pride are great, but making sure every single aspect of your life is G-A-Y is not necessary anymore. Or is it?

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